Hone your magnetism by focusing on your strengths
I was talking with a former client of mine who has a stepson with learning disabilities and special needs.
As I think of him now, I am reminded with a warm feeling in my heart of what a darling child he is. He’s very loving — and a little tenderhearted — and whenever I see him, he’s eager to show me all the things of his world.
It’s been a long time since I’ve seen him.
I remember one day when I was visiting, he showed me this little rocket-like toy that you pump up — I think he counted 10 or 12 pumps each time — and then you twisted something or stepped on something or something (my memory fails me) and then the rocket was suddenly launched into the atmosphere. (Well, not exactly the atmosphere, but pretty high nonetheless.)
Heads up! because if you weren’t paying attention, it very well may be landing right on your head.
Fun. Joy. Innocence. Those words describe the little boy’s world.
Yet, as many parents the world over can attest, having a child with special needs can be trying at times, even at the best of times.
My client, however, is both creative and analytical at the same time. She confided in me that life with her stepson can be challenging.
But, she said, “We just focus on his strengths.”
Wow.
That hit me smack in the face. How inspiring is that?
If we can appreciate the value of focusing on the strengths of those with disabilities, why aren’t we fully embracing that concept with our spouses, partners, loved ones, friends?
…ourselves?
